When Family Conflict Makes Christmas Difficult

Family conflict doesn’t disappear because it’s Christmas.
In fact, unresolved issues often intensify during the holidays.
Old arguments resurface.
People revert to childhood roles.
Siblings don’t see eye to eye.
Parents’ expectations overwhelm.
Extended family bring their opinions.
And emotions run high.
Before you walk into any family space this Christmas, carry this wisdom:

1. Don’t expect people to suddenly change.
Some personalities remain consistent prepare your heart.

2. You can choose peace without choosing silence.
Graceful boundaries are holy.

3. Don’t internalise hurtful comments.
People often project their pain.

4. Create small escape moments.
A walk.
A bathroom prayer.
A quiet breather in the kitchen.

5. Keep Jesus in your responses.
Not every comment requires a reaction.

Christmas doesn’t demand perfection; it calls us to love, in wisdom, with boundaries. And where there is conflict, invite the Prince of Peace into the room.